About
Kaya.
I’m Rhys
a Modern Custodian.
A lot of my work begins with culture.
But increasingly, I’ve realised that culture is really just the doorway.
What I’m interested in is people.
How we understand who we are.
How we relate to one another.
How we participate in the places we live and work.
And what becomes possible when we feel enough permission to be ourselves.
For the past fifteen years, I’ve worked as a cultural educator, facilitator, artist and storyteller. Along the way I created experiences like Acknowledge This, After Acknowledgement and Dabakarn Koorliny - each exploring different ways of connecting people to Country, culture and themselves.
I don’t believe meaningful change comes from giving people another set of rules to follow.
I think it comes from helping people think and feel differently.
Sometimes that means talking about Country.
Sometimes identity.
Sometimes leadership, fear, belonging or responsibility.
Usually, it means asking better questions.
Modern Custodian is where all of that now lives.
It’s the workshops, the stories, the art, the ideas and the experiments - all connected by a belief that has become increasingly clear to me:
I give people permission to be themselves.
Because authentic people participate differently.
And when people participate differently, culture changes.
I’m still figuring parts of this out too.
That’s part of the work.
Welcome to the hearth.
What I Want In My Work
In a world full of policies, protocols and good intentions, what I want from my work is actually pretty simple:
Presence. Connection. Responsibility.
I care less about whether people know the right words and more about how they show up.
For each other.
For themselves.
For Country.
Whether I’m facilitating a room, sitting with leaders, making art or designing something that doesn’t have a name yet, I’m trying to create the conditions for people to become more present, more honest and more able to participate.
Not perform.
Participate.
Because culture isn’t something we only think about.
We feel it.
It lives in the way a room welcomes you.
The way somebody listens.
The permission we give each other to speak.
The responsibility we take for the space between us.
That’s what being a Modern Custodian means to me.
Not claiming ancient knowledge.
Carrying responsibility for what happens now.
For the way I show up.
For the relationships I create.
For the places I move through.
For what I leave behind.
Strip everything else away and I think the work comes back to this:
Be present.
Be yourself.
Participate.
Take responsibility.
MEET THE Modern Custodian TEAM
I'm Kate.
A little about me - I love hiking; I'm currently in my pilates era; I spend too much time dreaming up holidays; and I'm Benny's human.
I'm Modern Custodian’s Business Manager which essentially means I keep things running. I love numbers and a good to do list.
I'm Kim.
Mum of two boys; surviving with humour, coffee &.. wine (can I say that?)
When family life isn’t too chaotic; we love to spend time getting away and exploring new places. I’m here for all your ticket enquiries and keeping our database nice and tidy.
I'm Benny.
My Mum says I'm a mutt, but I prefer the term “rescue mix”. I love digging holes, stealing other dogs balls and playing with squeaky toys.
My official role at Modern Custodian is to bring a bit of carnage to the office and contribute to Zoom calls.